Advice about dating an older man
En español │After 20 years, you're single again and, heaven help you, on the brink of dating.
Approach that work colleague you always thought was kinda cute? And once you do score a date, what should you expect in terms of s-e-x?
They seem interested, but after a few e-mails, they disappear.
Some 40-somethings recommend dating older men but caution that with too great an age difference there could be an imbalance of power. I had a guy friend who married a woman in her young 20s when he was 36. Visions of cozy nights a deux and dinner parties at their new home. So make sure as you get more serious that you talk about what you want your life to be like. And my third point would be to make sure he is not still a child. A lot of relationships between older men and younger women run into trouble over the baby factor. By the time you are ready to become a parent will he want to be a parent? You are the envy of everyone around you and you cannot believe how fortunate you are. Your family are probably amazed and your friends are jealous.
It can be tough when you and your older partner can’t share childhood commonalities (dude’s never read a book!?